The relationship and marriage you want is tied to what you do when you are single.

So, let me show you how to use your dating experience to set yourself up for relationship and marriage success. Click to get your free guide to dating as a 30-plus Christian woman.

Being single is not a problem to wish away.

It is a gift given to you by God and the choice to unwrap and experience it is yours.

This season has so much to offer you; if you embrace it. A season of waiting is never a wasted season if you decide so. If you are a woman of faith like me, here's something you must know. Praying, fasting and hoping for the best won't get you married. They are good but doing them alone won't get you results. 

I did all that and followed societal advice to get married with no change. Things changed for me when I focused on my personal transformation. Growth is non-negotiable if you are waiting on God to get married.

It is a mix of personal development, living purposefully and spiritual alignment that positions you for marriage. I also want you to know that as you do, this waiting season becomes a beautiful time for you.

You can enjoy each day till you get married and I want to help you do that. Let me show you how to wait gracefully and enjoy your singleness as you prepare for love and marriage. 

You can be expectant that you will get married and still live a life of joy, hope and success as a single woman.”

Hi! I'm Bunmi Oduah

And I love love. But for many years, I languished in the land of confusion and heartbreak. Don’t get me wrong, I was a happy, thriving single woman who wanted to get married. My career was going well and I lived alone as I tried to make my way through life.

My daddy (God rest his soul) was no longer footing my lifestyle away from home. It was the path I had chosen for the first time in my life. To be honest, I was loving it… except there was no man in my life to share my newfound independence with.

So, I tried what I knew as a Christian single woman who wanted to get married. I read the relationship section of the magazines I bought in the shops. I went to every event for singles I heard about or was part of organising. Weddings, parties, and group trips with guys were all on the cards for me. I dated extensively, yet, my left ring finger remained very bare.

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You are all shades of amazing

I wasn't even done with the class but I had to pause to send you a message. You're the best, your words caused me to reflect on what I wouldn't accept in a relationship. It hit me.


I am getting married in a few days! 

When I joined your community this time last year, I was verrrrryyy single. Today, the story is different. I am getting married in a few days and I had to say THANK YOU BUNMI!


I should be the one thanking you for this opportunity 

I am so grateful. I learned so much from you in class. You have really been a blessing to me, you have no idea.

God bless you. 

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