Is it possible to want to get married and also enjoy being single?

The answer is a resounding yes! Let me show you how to wait gracefully for your marriage.

As time passes and you remain unmarried, you wonder, when will it be my turn?

You want to get married but it has now been years. If the truth be told, you didn't think you would still be unmarried at this age. 

The plan was to be married way before you got here, but here you are, still not married. 

You cannot tell people around you how lonely you are, how badly you desire the companionship of that special someone that is all yours. You already get the pitying looks so there's no need to add to it. 

As each relationship does not pan out, your heart sinks a little bit more. You are scared that you will remain single and fear grips your heart.

If and when you meet men these days, you wonder if there are men who will commit to a serious relationship with a view to getting married because the ones you meet... sigh (if we start to talk...).

There are moments when you think, maybe I am searching for the impossible. Others who have not been as devoted to finding a godly man like you are getting married. 

Why even bother? Maybe you have switched off because of how long you have been waiting for this to happen. At least, if you do not hope, you cannot get your hopes dashed right?

It doesn't help that your family, friends and even strangers keep asking you when you are going to get married or bring the man home... as if you could force someone to marry you. 

Now, you don't want to talk with them about marriage, you avoid family functions and even your friends' weddings.

If you have to attend a wedding, you have to psyche yourself up so that you can be happy for the person getting married because you wonder when it will be your turn.

You want to be happy for them, you genuinely do but attending the wedding is a reminder of what you don't have... yet.  

At the same time, you also hold on to that teeny tiny bit of hope that maybe, just maybe, today might be the day you meet someone. 

Until someone drops a tactless remark about you being single and all the feelings come rushing back. Those feelings do not seem to go away for very long. 

There are times you really want to tell people how you are feeling but who do you tell? Your friends who are now married suddenly seem to have amnesia of what it is like to be single and ready to settle. 

It's tough I know, but I also know this; you want to get married and none of these things I've said would bug you if you didn't.

The reason you feel this way is because you want to get married. Not only that, you want to enjoy your single life and know how to position yourself for your husband. No one wants to look desperate, right? And you do not have to. 

You can have all these moments and emotions, but still enjoy each day till you say I do. 

Wanting to get married, waiting for it and enjoying the life you have right now aren't mutually exclusive.

You can wake up each day expectant and hopeful that you will get married; not tired, worried and frustrated.

You can keep crushing your goals, thriving in your career and living the life you want without apology.

You can use this time to prepare, knowing that you are a wife in waiting whilst also embracing your dreams.

The Waiting Gracefully Program has made me more self-aware. I realized how clueless I was and how I was not even preparing myself for marriage God's way. 

~ Oluwafunke Cole ~ 

Waiting Gracefully helps you do that

Succeed and thrive in all areas of your life while also doing the work that prepares and positions you for your marriage.

Waiting Gracefully is a 90-days online curriculum-based group coaching program for high-achieving Christian women who want to get married and enjoy each day till they say I do. It's the program that equips you not only to enjoy your single life but also prepares you for the marriage you desire.

Apply now and start waiting gracefully

"This was the program I didn't know I needed. I didn't realise how unprepared I was until I joined the program and realised I had been building castles in the air."

~ Temi O ~

When You Join, You’ll Get:


Clearly laid, step-by-step recorded lessons on all topics to do with singleness, waiting and dating. From mindsets and beliefs to wedding day preparation. It is a complete curriculum. 


Workbooks and related resources that help you learn, reflect and implement what you've learnt so you can start living intentionally while you wait for your marriage.


Hands-on workshops, biweekly live coaching calls and no-holds-barred question and answer sessions on all things singl, waiting and dating.


A community of like minded women and a safe space for building relationships, staying accountable and making connections.

In their own words

My mindset has been changed.

This journey has been empowering, enlightening, very spiritual and very real. It was timely, the materials really equipped me. My mindset has changed, that I am not just waiting, I am a wife and I am acting as such.

Chiugo N

It was a joy and blessing to be in a community

It was a joy and blessing to be in a community that affirms what you hold so dearly. I really loved looking at our subconscious and what really runs behind the scenes. Certain subconscious conditioning that I've largely ignored have come to light and I've learnt how to confront them.

Wura A

I've gained clarity for marriage

Each session was very insightful. The coaching calls were an excellent way of consolidating the knowledge gained.  I gained clarity in terms of purpose/vision for my marriage and how it affects my choice in partner. I am now having a productive waiting.

Tolu S

In the Waiting Gracefully Program,

I will take you through my step-by-step process of waiting for marriage and positioning yourself for your husband. By the end:


You'll have a Purposeful Perspective 

In this module, you will learn the right beliefs about seasons, processes, marriage and the scripts that we use to live our lives. You will also know the four pre-marital stages there are and be able to assess where you currently are.  


You'll be Restored to Royalty

In this module, you'll learn who you really are, how to align yourself with God's image of you, the way to know your life's purpose. You'll also learn how to build a relationship with God that helps your waiting gracefully journey.


You'll start positioning yourself as a Wife in Waiting 

By the end of this module, you'll know what preparation looks like for you and the five non-negotiable areas you must work on while you wait. You'll learn how to manage your emotions, renew your mindset, sort out your finances and how to handle sex before marriage. 


You'll learn how to recognise your Purpose Partner 

Through this module, you'll learn how to review your relationship history and deal with negative patterns. You will also learn how to prepare for dating, date intentionally for marriage and create your husband checklist. You'll also learn how to do courtship well and plan for your wedding. 


There's more.

When you sign up to the program, you get these exclusive bonuses that are only available to those on the program.

Bonus 1
The King Blueprint Workshop

A hands-on workshop where you create the vision of your future husband, detailing the exact qualities he should have so you can recognise him when he shows up.

Bonus 2
The Thriving Life Audit 

A 360-degree review of your life that helps you prioritise the areas that need your focus and set the right goals.

I am not just any teacher

I am the teacher who has been the student. For over ten years, I tried everything I could to get married. After many false starts, dashes hopes and tears (cue: where do broken hearts go by Whitney Houston), things changed for me. 

In the twinkling of an eye (more like fourteen months), I went from single with no boyfriend to married. It was that quick, but let me tell you that my joy didn't kick in when I met my husband. Oh no, it kicked in way before, when I was single and ready to settle. By the way, I don't mean the settling of my standards and values. 

See I was happy as a single girl, but not always. Initially, I was miserable, thought I was being punished by God and scared I would be a spinster for life. That changed when I decided to embrace my single season.

Since 2017, I have been helping single Christian women who want to get married to wait gracefully and enjoy their waiting season. I wanted to help other women single women like me so they didn't make the mistakes I did. 

Hi, I am Bunmi Oduah and I would love to help you too.

Women are getting real changes in their waiting season

Kemi A

I am more conscious of the qualities that are really important to me.

The program has made me that little bit more content on my journey… because God has a different path for me and I can be happy for others. It has also given me laser focus about my husband and the key attributes I want about my husband. I am more conscious of the qualities that are really important to me.

Lara O

What I have learnt during this period, I am not trading it for anything.

I am intentional while I wait. Everything I want to do, I am doing. When he comes, and he will, I will have made a better person of myself while I wait. For the first time in my life, I am absolutely certain that I will get married. What I have learnt during this period, I am not trading it for anything.


One of the greatest things is that it has made me assess my position as a wife to be

I love the process you took us through because it was a reset, starting with where we needed to be before going to the other lessons down the line. I’ve picked up a lot about developing my mindset for marriage. One of the greatest things is that it has made me assess my position as a wife to be.

Let's Sum It Up

Here's what you will get when you sign up to the program

  • Teaching: all the recorded lessons, worksheets, cheat sheets and checklists (£1200) 
  • Coaching: Live calls, hands-on support and opportunities to ask me questions (£2400)
  • Community: a group of like minded women who get what you are going through (Priceless)
  • Bonuses: to ensure that you have all that you need to be successful in life and relationship (£500)

Are you ready to wait gracefully? Then apply below

Want to pay in Naira or prefer one-on-one support? Please send an email to info@bunmioduah.com



Spread out the cost in 3 payments




  • All Recorded Lessons
  • Biweekly Group Coaching
  • Guides and Resources
  • Bonuses
  • Lifetime Access

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I really need a program to help me?

If you are tired, frustrated and constantly thinking of the fact that you aren't married yet...

If you want to get married but are scared of taking big leaps because you think it will reduce your chances of getting married...

If you want a clear guide for how to wait as a high achieving woman and enjoy your life at the same time...

If you want to know how to prepare and position yourself as a wife for your husband...

If you want to be able to ask someone how they did it or want a group of ladies who understand what you are dealing with...

Then this program is for you. 

Will I get one on one support?

This is a group program but you will have access to me during the biweekly live calls where I will provide you and the other beautiful ladies the support you need. 

If however, you do want my one-on-one support during the program, please send an email to info@bunmioduah.com and request the 1:1 package. 

Do you offer discounts or scholarships?

I do not offer discounts or scholarships but a monthly payment plan is available. Just click the payment plan option and you can make your payments spread over a set period. 

I appreciate that you may not be able to join due to financial constraints at this time. I pray that you will be able to in the future and look forward to seeing you then. 

How is this different to what my pastor teaches?

I appreciate your pastor may teach about waiting but does he teach it as it relates to you, a high-achieving woman? Will he hold your hand as you seek to understand every part of your waiting season and show what you need to do at each point?

Will he be easily accessible for every single question you may have? Is he a woman who has waited for marriage like you, knowing where it hurts? 

It is because I understand the pain you feel and the pressures pastors are under, to care for all their congregation, that I have created this program for you. 

How do I know this will work for me?

In this program, I will teach you principles that govern waiting for marriage and enjoying being single. These are biblical, time tested principles that worked for me and the clients I have worked with. 

In addition, whether this will work for you will be up to you. If you put in the work, I personally believe that you will see changes in your life. 

I want to join but don't have time

The lessons have been recorded so that you can watch them at your own pace. The biweekly live calls are also recorded so that you can watch the replays if you are unable to attend. You will be provided with details about the sessions so that you can plan around them. If you set aside about 2 hours each week, you will be able to keep at pace with the lessons. You will also have lifetime access when the program is over.

If you have read this far

I want to commend you but also encourage you to take this step. I understand what you are going through because I've been you. That is why I am particularly proud of this program, and I have poured my heart and soul into it for you. Yes, you reading this. I was thinking of you when I created it. I wanted you to have all you need to walk this season before marriage with your head up, knowing you are living your life exactly as God intended even as you wait gracefully for your marriage. Click the enrol button and let's walk this journey together.

Bunmi Oduah

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